<2021-10-09T18:49:01.000Z> Wunder: Hey super,
<2021-10-09T18:50:33.000Z> Wunder: I have an issue, I am an aspiring lutheran and my fiance is catholic, she is having an issue with my faith because when we started dating I thought I would be going to catholicism, but I changed my mind. She has an issue with this as she wanted to get married in a church, but now she doesn't want to do that. What should I do?
<2021-10-09T18:58:06.000Z> SuperLutheran: In all honesty, the best thing to do is sit down and have a chat about it, where you do a lot more listening that talking.
<2021-10-09T18:58:56.000Z> SuperLutheran: I'm not saying you should do whatever she might demand (Confessional Lutheranism IS better than Roman Catholicism by far after all),
<2021-10-09T18:59:35.000Z> SuperLutheran: But the point is, you need to know where she's coming from, what's important to her, and how you can help make her feel better without compromising yourself
<2021-10-09T19:06:24.000Z> Wunder: She has no interest in me converting, she is more disappointed with the idea of me being a part of a different church than her and she worries about our future children's upbringing. She says she wants to raise them as catholics. She says this will divide us on issues. Thank you for the response.
<2021-10-11T06:13:17.000Z> SuperLutheran: Those are some important things to think about. She wants to raise them caddies, you're gonna want them Lutheran. A house divided doesn't stand, so I will pray that our Lord brings the both of you to harmony in this
<2021-10-11T06:14:25.000Z> SuperLutheran: I wonder if there's a familial attachment to Rome that makes her wanna stay there