<2022-03-07T21:42:41.000Z> JosephPatterson: I dont want to start a hellthread, so I am just going to tell you the secret to finding a GF. 
<2022-03-07T21:42:49.000Z> JosephPatterson: It isnt going to the mall or a dating app. 
<2022-03-07T21:43:21.000Z> JosephPatterson: There are two things. 1. Going out with your friends and being surrounded by people having a good time. 2. Yoga class. 
<2022-03-07T21:44:00.000Z> JosephPatterson: If the first doesnt work, do number two. Just dont be a weird perv and pretend to be interested. 
<2022-03-07T21:44:48.000Z> elftummy: Yoga class? I'd never thought of that. I guess  I do see a lot of women interested in the hippie crowd. I go out a bunch but it's almost entirely for business
<2022-03-07T21:45:01.000Z> JosephPatterson: I feel your pain. 
<2022-03-07T21:45:25.000Z> JosephPatterson: Yoga class is dark arts a friend of mine clued me into. 
<2022-03-07T21:45:52.000Z> elftummy: I don't have the most free time in the world but if I cut back on my gym time a bit I could squeeze in a bit of yoga. 
<2022-03-07T21:48:53.000Z> JosephPatterson: I feel your pain. It is difficult, but yoga is specifically a chick zone and you add a weird mysticism to it by being the one guy. If you actually make a lot of money as well, that adds even more mystique if they see you driving a nice car. 
<2022-03-07T21:54:30.000Z> elftummy: I drive a new '22 Maverick but women don't know cars, can't tell it apart from a ranger or a toyota or whatever. But I definitely see the value in being the only male in a female spaceI think because the nearest big city is a college city that I may have trouble finding a class which doesn't already have at least a few dudeweedbro hippies 
<2022-03-07T21:55:41.000Z> JosephPatterson: You would be surprised. But even if thats the case, you will probably outclass them. 
<2022-03-07T21:56:20.000Z> JosephPatterson: As for the car I think it depends on the kind of woman you want to attract. Some are into luxury. Some sports cars. Others jeeps. Not a solid metric imo. 
<2022-03-07T21:57:02.000Z> elftummy: I appreciate the info and I will report back with any success 
<2022-03-07T21:57:09.000Z> JosephPatterson: My gf loves jeeps and thinks my Lexus looks like every other car but doesn’t actually give a shit for instance
<2022-03-07T21:57:21.000Z> JosephPatterson: 👍🏻
<2022-03-07T22:00:30.000Z> elftummy: I don't think my truck fits any particular stereotype that might be attractive. It's definitely not luxury, it's not a sportscar (fastest I've been is 110), it's not a jeep, it's not a super tall truck, not a mercedes. Just a plain white mini truck I guess. Though I've never met any women who were super into cars so my perception is skewed 
<2022-03-07T22:01:38.000Z> JosephPatterson: They’re never really “super into” cars so much as use it as a heuristic metric for a mans worth. 
<2022-03-07T22:01:58.000Z> elftummy: Ah that's fair. I can see that.
<2022-03-07T22:02:05.000Z> JosephPatterson: Unless they are “race car larp girl” but I’ve only seen three of those everp
<2022-03-07T22:02:31.000Z> JosephPatterson: They usually drive WRXs. 
<2022-03-07T22:04:09.000Z> elftummy: WRXs have the highest rate of speeding ticket of any car in the USA
<2022-03-07T22:04:31.000Z> JosephPatterson: Yup. Never seen the appeal myself tbh. 
<2022-03-07T22:05:02.000Z> JosephPatterson: People that are into them are actually worse than people into Jeeps in my opinion. 
<2022-03-07T22:15:00.000Z> elftummy: I'm in the south so I get a lot of beer-bellied meth-mouth whores into big lifted mud trucks but that's the extend of my experience with women and vehicles 
<2022-03-07T22:25:45.000Z> JosephPatterson: Single moms was my biggest bane when I lived in a similar area. 
<2022-03-07T22:26:00.000Z> JosephPatterson: Everyone over the age of 21 was a single mom. 
<2022-03-07T22:28:22.000Z> elftummy: Yeah I've seen that a bunch. I'm particularly disgusted when women don't mention in their profile that they were a whore and got a bunch of mulatto brood but they still include a picture of two with their bastard 
<2022-03-07T22:40:49.000Z> JosephPatterson: 😩
<2022-03-07T22:41:19.000Z> JosephPatterson: Yeah. That’s been less of an issue for me. Usually those women are land whales. 
<2022-03-07T22:42:57.000Z> elftummy: Even a lot of the regular ones nowadays seem to be that way. 
<2022-03-07T22:50:24.000Z> JosephPatterson: Maybe its just a different class of woman where I was and where I am now. 
<2022-03-07T22:50:29.000Z> JosephPatterson: 🤔
<2022-03-07T23:09:02.000Z> elftummy: Women here are mostly White, mostly thin, mostly hotBut lots of whores, lots of drugs 
<2022-03-07T23:12:42.000Z> JosephPatterson: Yeah thats nationwide. 
<2022-03-07T23:43:15.000Z> elftummy: It's literal war, literal genocide, facilitated by the government which has caused these issues. 
<2022-03-08T00:19:56.000Z> JosephPatterson: Yup. It is a pickle, but I think there are still
<2022-03-08T00:20:10.000Z> JosephPatterson: *some diamonds in the rough 
<2022-03-08T00:20:56.000Z> elftummy: I've met a few, usually wives of good guys
<2022-03-08T00:22:49.000Z> JosephPatterson: And eventually you’ll find one that doesn’t suck and isn’t married. 
<2022-03-08T00:23:06.000Z> JosephPatterson: You’ll have to go through a shit ton of bad ones first though. 
<2022-03-08T00:23:26.000Z> JosephPatterson: Struggle defined who we are as men. 
<2022-03-08T00:23:50.000Z> JosephPatterson: Nothing has changed other than the propaganda about that. 
<2022-03-08T00:25:50.000Z> elftummy: Very true. More struggle = more gooder. 