<2022-11-17T06:26:37.000Z> Will2Power: Dan, you're an expert with women right?
<2022-11-17T06:27:08.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I ain't bad with woman why mate
<2022-11-17T06:27:34.000Z> Will2Power: I'm in a predicament and need some professional advice.
<2022-11-17T06:28:12.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I'm no expert but I have been about. If I can help I will, brother
<2022-11-17T06:28:40.000Z> Will2Power: Alright, I'll lay out the situation.
<2022-11-17T06:28:49.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Go on
<2022-11-17T06:29:23.000Z> Will2Power: >Single mom of a 5 y/o girl>She's racist, anti-Semitic, pro homestead, etc
<2022-11-17T06:29:41.000Z> Will2Power: Has been talking to my friend prior to knowing me
<2022-11-17T06:30:08.000Z> Will2Power: Messaged her on Telegram and she's been messaging me basically every day.
<2022-11-17T06:30:08.000Z> Dan_Hulson: right
<2022-11-17T06:30:35.000Z> Will2Power: Not sure if she's monkey-branching from my friend to me.
<2022-11-17T06:31:07.000Z> Will2Power: I'm more or less the ideal match for her. Have a house, car, career, etc.
<2022-11-17T06:31:27.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Listen do you like her
<2022-11-17T06:32:01.000Z> Will2Power: So, here's the thing. She lives 6+ hours away. CAme into town last weekend and I met her IRL the first time.
<2022-11-17T06:32:38.000Z> Dan_Hulson: did you get on
<2022-11-17T06:32:58.000Z> Will2Power: I do really like her at least when I met her in person, but it could be because she's really hot. No, I didn't hook up with her or anything.
<2022-11-17T06:33:44.000Z> Will2Power: Weird thing though, I know she's banged my friend in the past. And she stayed with him when she was in town.
<2022-11-17T06:34:23.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Look you should give it a go but keep it light no talk of marriage or anything. Just see how it goes we have all slept with other people
<2022-11-17T06:34:43.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Ivite her stay with you for a week
<2022-11-17T06:35:06.000Z> Dan_Hulson: then you will get a feel for thing
<2022-11-17T06:35:10.000Z> Will2Power: Yeah, I'm no saint myself, but have been reforming myself for the past year or two.
<2022-11-17T06:35:36.000Z> Will2Power: My main worry is that she could be manipulating me.
<2022-11-17T06:35:41.000Z> Dan_Hulson: No of us r saints and you can wait for a perfect woman forever
<2022-11-17T06:35:54.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I understand that
<2022-11-17T06:36:06.000Z> Will2Power: Yeah, I'm not the kind of guy that would demand a woman be a virgin or anything.
<2022-11-17T06:36:44.000Z> Dan_Hulson: What have you got to lose really. Keep it light and invite her over for say a week
<2022-11-17T06:36:50.000Z> Will2Power: Like, if I knew she could commit to me 100% I'd maybe be ok with her being a single mom, but I am worried I'm too naive.
<2022-11-17T06:37:20.000Z> Will2Power: Problem is it's hard for her to travel since she has a kid.
<2022-11-17T06:37:55.000Z> Dan_Hulson: The Kid nor got Grandparents it could stay with for a few days
<2022-11-17T06:38:44.000Z> Will2Power: That's true. Guessing that's what she did before. I think I really need to ask my friend what's up. Wouldn't want it to ruin our friendship.
<2022-11-17T06:39:08.000Z> Dan_Hulson: You are correct to think about things and maybe speak to your mate
<2022-11-17T06:39:25.000Z> Dan_Hulson: but overthinking things can be bad too
<2022-11-17T06:39:41.000Z> Will2Power: I think she likes him but they aren't a good match. 
<2022-11-17T06:40:17.000Z> Dan_Hulson: You should talk to him and try and find out if shes crazy
<2022-11-17T06:40:26.000Z> Will2Power: True. But I'd rather maintain my friendship with him first before trading it for a girl.
<2022-11-17T06:40:48.000Z> Will2Power: Yeah, like, I think her claim is that her former bf cheated on her.
<2022-11-17T06:41:13.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Just be honest with your mate and tell him whats up
<2022-11-17T06:41:22.000Z> Will2Power: I hate to think evil exists in this world, but maybe she is actually a good actor and playing both of us.
<2022-11-17T06:42:04.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Women are more cunning then men but thats always a risk in life
<2022-11-17T06:42:17.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Everything is a gamble
<2022-11-17T06:42:18.000Z> Will2Power: Too true.
<2022-11-17T06:42:43.000Z> Will2Power: I have an extremely limited experience with women, so my biggest worry is that I
<2022-11-17T06:42:50.000Z> Will2Power: I'll be taken for a sucker.
<2022-11-17T06:43:06.000Z> Dan_Hulson: But maybe you will kick yourself if you don't give it a go
<2022-11-17T06:43:20.000Z> Will2Power: True
<2022-11-17T06:43:39.000Z> Dan_Hulson: You havn't got to marry her or nothing
<2022-11-17T06:43:45.000Z> Will2Power: It is a difficult situation
<2022-11-17T06:44:28.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Be straight with your mate and spend some time with her and get a feeel for things
<2022-11-17T06:45:03.000Z> Will2Power: Yeah, I think that's the plan. Thank you sir!
<2022-11-17T06:45:33.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I have had some terrible GFs but it's all a learning experiance
<2022-11-17T06:46:04.000Z> Dan_Hulson: There is still good women in the world
<2022-11-17T06:46:36.000Z> Dan_Hulson: You can hit me up anytime to talk things through, Brother
<2022-11-17T06:47:26.000Z> Will2Power: I've only dated or had "situation-ships" with women. Never a long-term gf. 
<2022-11-17T06:47:33.000Z> Will2Power: I appreaciate the advice.
<2022-11-17T06:47:48.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Anytime Brother for real
<2022-11-17T06:49:11.000Z> Will2Power: Biggest issue for me is that I went to a single-sex secondary school and then studied STEM in college (all dudes). I now work in that field and it's all dudes. So basically I have had almost zero interaction with women since I was a teenager till now.
<2022-11-17T06:50:27.000Z> Dan_Hulson: So what I'm hearing is it will be good for you to spend some time with a woman and get some expirence around them
<2022-11-17T06:51:28.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Trust your gut on these things
<2022-11-17T06:51:53.000Z> Will2Power: This is why I'm a retard. In my mind she's with my friend right? But I can't tell if she's just being friendly with me or hitting on me. Gut feeling says she's hitting on me.
<2022-11-17T06:52:49.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Does she touch you and laugh at stupid jokes and does she turn away when you catch her gaze
<2022-11-17T06:53:25.000Z> Will2Power: She did all of those things when I met her in person the first time.
<2022-11-17T06:53:43.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Well shes into you
<2022-11-17T06:54:13.000Z> Will2Power: Lol! I am not strong enough to resist her tbh. She's really hot.
<2022-11-17T06:54:34.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Thats normal mate
<2022-11-17T06:55:05.000Z> Will2Power: The body is weak
<2022-11-17T06:55:51.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Whats the worst thing that can you spend time together and you don't get on or you could break up after a year or be happy with her for years
<2022-11-17T06:57:25.000Z> Dan_Hulson: It's good you are attracted to her and it's normal to sleep with women
<2022-11-17T06:58:45.000Z> Will2Power: I will take your advice and get to the bottom of things. Oftentimes I am too nice with people. I have a hard time being direct.
<2022-11-17T06:59:05.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Try not to procrastinate and be more direct
<2022-11-17T07:00:06.000Z> Will2Power: It's hard for me Dan. Online it's easy for me to be a racist/anti-Semite asshole, but IRL I'm a nice guy.
<2022-11-17T07:00:41.000Z> Dan_Hulson: It's good to be a nice guy
<2022-11-17T07:00:55.000Z> Will2Power: It's over.
<2022-11-17T07:00:57.000Z> Will2Power: lol
<2022-11-17T07:01:00.000Z> Dan_Hulson: lol
<2022-11-17T07:01:15.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I will pray that you find the strength to figure this out but either way I'm here if you need me
<2022-11-17T07:01:34.000Z> Will2Power: Alright, I need to get to bed. Please take over shit-poasting while us Amerimutts are asleep.
<2022-11-17T07:01:52.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Of cause mate. Sleep well
<2022-11-17T07:02:23.000Z> Dan_Hulson: and remember everything u tell me is kept private so no worries there
<2022-11-17T07:07:35.000Z> Will2Power: Np Mr. Dan. It's important for us to have people we can reach out to for advice.
<2022-11-17T07:10:06.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Of cause, brother. I'm always here and sleep well
<2022-12-04T09:41:14.000Z> Will2Power: I do not think I can resist her brother. It's over for me.
<2022-12-04T09:41:32.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I was just thinking about that lol
<2022-12-04T09:41:57.000Z> Dan_Hulson: So how is it going
<2022-12-04T09:43:19.000Z> Dan_Hulson: You spend much time with her
<2022-12-04T09:43:25.000Z> Will2Power: I have been chatting with her a bit more. Seems like it did not work out with her and my friend. I like him, since we've been friends for a while, but he led her on. She's looking for a long term thing and he isn't. 
<2022-12-04T09:43:53.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Have you invited her for the weekend yet
<2022-12-04T09:44:36.000Z> Will2Power: Not yet, it's sort of long distance, but I may have the opportunity during the holiday season.
<2022-12-04T09:45:21.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Make sure u get it sorted mate. Women soon drift if u don't get things nailed down
<2022-12-04T09:46:15.000Z> Will2Power: I will figure it out sir. Hopefully I can see her before the end of the year. Nay, I will make it happen.
<2022-12-04T09:47:14.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Good man you get it done. Nothing ventured nothing gained
<2022-12-04T09:48:04.000Z> Will2Power: Understood 100%. I will push it.
<2022-12-04T09:48:42.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I'm always here if you need me, mate. anytime just reach out
<2022-12-04T09:49:17.000Z> Will2Power: Hell yeah. Thank you so much Mr. Dan.
<2022-12-07T05:27:12.000Z> Will2Power: What's the move Dan:poa.st/objects/ae1e4072-626c-406f-80f3-9049cdd5c1fb
<2022-12-07T05:32:12.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Did u tell the Trad cath girl that you liked another woman perchance before she took an intrest in you?
<2022-12-07T05:32:19.000Z> Will2Power: No
<2022-12-07T05:33:18.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Ok sometimes women only take an interest when you like somebody else
<2022-12-07T05:33:39.000Z> Will2Power: They are psychic man
<2022-12-07T05:34:01.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Yes women are like that lol
<2022-12-07T05:34:25.000Z> Will2Power: I assumed she just wanted to hang out as friends. And the long distance one is not very practical at all, but me and her get along together great.
<2022-12-07T05:34:29.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I would play it by ear but I have a feeling you prefer woman 2
<2022-12-07T05:35:21.000Z> Will2Power: Yeah, I think I've talked to her and opened up to her a lot more. With woman 1 it's more difficult because I'm still somewhat walking on egg-shells.
<2022-12-07T05:35:49.000Z> Will2Power: Also, the first time I talked to woman 1 I didn't have someone else on the line, so was more worried about losing her.
<2022-12-07T05:36:03.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I sense that woman may be indecisive and may mess u about
<2022-12-07T05:36:13.000Z> Dan_Hulson: woman 1
<2022-12-07T05:36:53.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I still say spend a weekend with woman 2 and see how it goes
<2022-12-07T05:36:56.000Z> Will2Power: Maybe so. However, she did ask me to go to another event with her. But did not say that it was a "date" specifically.
<2022-12-07T05:37:28.000Z> Will2Power: Woman 2 I have met IRL once, but it's very long distance. I would have to fly to her.
<2022-12-07T05:37:41.000Z> Will2Power: Or drive 14+ hours.
<2022-12-07T05:38:39.000Z> Dan_Hulson: I understand 100%. Why not just go on a few more dates with woman 1 in the meantime and see how it goes then
<2022-12-07T05:39:04.000Z> Will2Power: That's what I'll do. However, I feel bad about doing that while still talking to Woman 2.
<2022-12-07T05:39:45.000Z> Dan_Hulson: you are just talking and it's only dating it's nothing serious
<2022-12-07T05:39:52.000Z> Will2Power: True
<2022-12-07T05:40:24.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Go on a few dates in the meantime then decide
<2022-12-07T05:40:40.000Z> Will2Power: I'll keep going out with Woman 1 and see how things come along with Woman 2.
<2022-12-07T05:41:02.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Thats what I would do and just play it by ear
<2022-12-07T05:41:52.000Z> Will2Power: I'll do just that. Thank you sir!
<2022-12-07T05:42:38.000Z> Dan_Hulson: Anytime mate. I'm always here it helps sometimes to just speak to others about this stuff
<2022-12-07T05:43:23.000Z> Will2Power: Yeah, I've got some friends to talk to about this kinda thing, but I like getting more opinions.