<2023-01-31T10:00:40.000Z> Alex1488: I know things get tough sometimes, but keep your chin up, everything usually gets better eventually.
<2023-01-31T10:01:57.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: Thank you..
<2023-01-31T10:04:23.000Z> Alex1488: You don't know me, and I don't know you, but if you ever need to talk, poke me.I better to live, if for no other reason than to spite everybody who doesn't like you. If you give up, they win.
<2023-01-31T10:09:30.000Z> Alex1488: It's better to live*
<2023-01-31T10:09:31.000Z> Alex1488: Derp
<2023-01-31T10:18:22.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: Since people thought I was a fed, here's my little fed junior. https://chudbuds.lol/media/3f9df12f-96d8-4616-ab8d-8f12877f912f/bunnyfed.jpg
<2023-01-31T10:19:44.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: Damn it, image is rotated.
<2023-01-31T10:20:29.000Z> Alex1488: Cute fedbun.
<2023-01-31T10:21:02.000Z> Alex1488: How new are you to all this? It feels a bit like you haven't been called a fed before.Not to sound harsh, but you'll get over it. I promise.
<2023-01-31T10:21:48.000Z> Alex1488: People's suspicions are grounded in real experiences. Literal government organizations do infiltrate websites like poa.st to lurk.
<2023-01-31T10:24:25.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: Not sure how new, probably a year. I'm aware of them and people calling out feds, but didn't think it would turn like that. I'm a person who likes to observe and lurk, which unfortunately makes me weird.
<2023-01-31T10:27:30.000Z> Alex1488: You're not weird. Most people lurk. It's just the nature of lurking, that means people don't really see how many lurkers there really are.
<2023-01-31T10:29:40.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: Ah, okay then.
<2023-01-31T10:30:54.000Z> Alex1488: Is it the first time you've had relationship trouble? I know it can be tough, but it's especially tough the first time.
<2023-01-31T10:31:12.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: It's my first time.
<2023-01-31T10:34:17.000Z> Alex1488: I'm going to assume you're a bit young then. Trust me, whatever you're feeling will pass.I know that might not help much to hear, but it's true.
<2023-01-31T10:34:47.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: ...I'm 33.
<2023-01-31T10:35:59.000Z> Alex1488: That's alright. My statements remain the same.
<2023-01-31T10:37:32.000Z> Alex1488: If you're a bit of an introvert, I know it can seem bleak to find a new partner within reasonable time, but you'll find somebody new, I'm sure. :)
<2023-01-31T10:39:06.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: I'm very introverted. I have spent majority of my life alone, which pains me.
<2023-01-31T10:40:32.000Z> Alex1488: It's an evil spiral, I'm familiar with it.Introverted prevents you from going outside.Lack of outside activities means you don't meet many people.You grow more lonely and shy, causing you to stay indoor more.It feeds on itself.
<2023-01-31T10:41:41.000Z> Alex1488: I know it may be scary to write on chudbuds or poa.st, but you gotta remember nobody here can really hurt you, as long as you don't give any personal identifying information.
<2023-01-31T10:42:18.000Z> Alex1488: Use it as a platform to engage with others from the safety of your home, grow bolder, and put yourself out there.
<2023-01-31T10:42:36.000Z> Alex1488: The more you put yourself out there, the sooner you'll find that you're not alone in these feelings. :)
<2023-01-31T12:20:15.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: Sorry I disappeared, had things to attend to. But yeah.. I suppose I could try, being social for me is really challenging. 
<2023-01-31T12:21:00.000Z> Alex1488: You don't know me, you have no obligation to respond to me. It's alright. :)
<2023-01-31T12:21:43.000Z> Alex1488: I know how you feel, but just try to think rationally about it.People cannot hurt you. It's all just pixels on a screen, shaped into words. :)
<2023-01-31T12:23:49.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: Heh, sure. Thanks for helping. Do you mind if I talk or ask for help sometimes?
<2023-01-31T12:24:07.000Z> Alex1488: Sure, don't be shy.
<2023-01-31T12:24:25.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: Okay, thanks.
<2023-01-31T12:24:38.000Z> Alex1488: Just write nigger real quick.
<2023-01-31T12:24:44.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: NIGGER
<2023-01-31T12:24:52.000Z> Alex1488: That's it ^^
<2023-01-31T12:25:09.000Z> Fiinikiivi@chudbuds.lol: Neekeri in Finnish.
<2023-01-31T12:33:22.000Z> Alex1488: lol